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Mastering Self-Doubt: Three Unconventional Tips to Perform at Your Best
As leaders, we often face moments of intense pressure where self-doubt and self-sabotage can creep in, threatening to derail our performance. In previous newsletters, I've looked at how these mental barriers can hold us back from reaching our full potential. Today, I want to share three unconventional tips that have helped some of the world’s top performers overcome these challenges and excel under pressure.
1. The Power of Alter Egos: Channeling Your Inner Hero
When faced with high-stakes situations, adopting an alter ego can be a game-changer. This isn’t about pretending to be someone you’re not—it’s about tapping into a different part of yourself, one that embodies the qualities you need in the moment.
Real-World Example:
Take Beyoncé, who created her alter ego, "Sasha Fierce," to help her perform with confidence on stage. When she steps into this persona, she leaves her insecurities behind, allowing her to give powerful performances without fear or self-doubt. In the leadership world, this could mean stepping into the role of a confident, decisive leader when presenting to stakeholders or making tough decisions.
Try This:
The next time you face a challenging situation, think about an alter ego that embodies the qualities you need. It could be someone you admire, a fictional character, or even a version of yourself that’s already achieved your goals. Step into that persona and let it guide you through the moment.
2. The Micro-Momentum Strategy: Building Confidence Through Small Wins
Sometimes, self-doubt arises from the enormity of a task or goal. The Micro-Momentum Strategy focuses on breaking down overwhelming tasks into smaller, manageable steps. By achieving these “micro-wins,” you build confidence and create positive momentum, which helps to dispel self-doubt and keep self-sabotage at bay.
Real-World Example:
Consider how world-renowned author J.K. Rowling wrote the "Harry Potter" series. Facing significant personal challenges and doubts, she didn’t set out to write a bestselling series all at once. Instead, she focused on writing a few pages each day. These small, consistent efforts added up, leading to the creation of a literary phenomenon. By focusing on micro-wins, she built momentum that carried her through the process, despite her doubts.
Try This:
When facing a daunting project or goal, break it down into smaller tasks that you can accomplish quickly. Each time you complete one, acknowledge the achievement. These small victories will build your confidence and create a steady forward momentum, making the larger goal feel more attainable and reducing the impact of self-doubt
3. The Five-Second Rule: Overcoming Self-Sabotage in the Moment
Sometimes, self-sabotage happens in a split second. You’re about to speak up in a meeting, but self-doubt creeps in, and you stay silent. The Five-Second Rule, popularized by Mel Robbins, is a simple but powerful tool to break this cycle.
Real-World Example:
Mel Robbins herself used this rule to turn her life around during a challenging period. She would count backward from five—5, 4, 3, 2, 1—and then take action before her brain could talk her out of it. This technique has helped countless individuals push through fear and hesitation, leading to more decisive actions and better outcomes.
Try This:
The next time you feel self-doubt creeping in, count down from five and take immediate action. Whether it’s making a decision, voicing an idea, or stepping into a difficult conversation, this simple tool can help you overcome the paralysis of self-sabotage.
Putting It All Together
These tips might seem unconventional, but they’ve helped top performers across various fields overcome self-doubt and self-sabotage to excel under pressure. By incorporating these strategies into your leadership toolkit, you can navigate challenges with greater confidence and resilience.
With you every step of the way, Isabelle
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Photo Credit: Kent Wong
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